tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-150699647741228288.post7307409939466384380..comments2023-08-18T10:09:52.959-04:00Comments on My Important Drama: Return to the Valley of the PornAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10098214552133572485noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-150699647741228288.post-62479174049746474842012-03-27T13:00:34.716-04:002012-03-27T13:00:34.716-04:00If the latter, it's pretty fun that that's...If the latter, it's pretty fun that that's the argument the guy was taking -- "It's so hard to find a nice girl out here in the real world who likes books, long walks on the beach, and going down on like nine dudes at once!" If that's what he really thinks, then the LW's response is valid: maybe he should look at his own behavior and make sure he is part of the solution. <br /><br />Also, Dan Savage rightly points out that there are two ways to get someone you're compatible with both sexually and dating-wise: (a) limit your dating to mutually satisfying one-night stands, kink websites, etc., so you're only dating people who are into what you're into, or (b) find a nice person you like through traditional dating and then mold them into your perfect sex partner by (in gradual stages, if necessary) being open about your desires and game for satisfying theirs. <br /><br />So good luck to him with that.Luluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10474136335611800466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-150699647741228288.post-20940387363170152682012-03-22T13:44:57.507-04:002012-03-22T13:44:57.507-04:00Cuz boobs!
This bit: "The men said men love ...Cuz boobs!<br /><br />This bit: "The men said men love porn because it shows women enjoying sex with abandon. We women protested that women who behave this way in real life are labeled "sluts" by both men and women." <br /> <br />Is weird maybe? I guess it depends on what they mean by "enjoying sex with abandon" - my initial read was that they enjoy a watching a lady get down in some crazy positions with a lot of TOTALLY REAL TO ME noises. It would seem strange to say that women who did that in real life would be classified as slutty because... nuh uh? I don't think any dude who is deep in some lady parts and witnessing behavior like that is all "Whatta slut". Because he is too busy thinking that he just reached level 100 of sex godhood.<br /><br />If "with wild abandon" was meant to refer to the fact that porn ladies are going down on like nine dudes at once then, sure, that probably gets called slutty out here in the real world.<br /><br />In closing, sometimes I am just typing out the things as I think through them.<br /><br />Cuz boobs.Darnellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04396387493874124783noreply@blogger.com